Work in progress ... literally!! Lol "Can a women be both? Reach orgasms through vaginal stimulation or with the clit??

                                                "Ectasy"(1894) by Wladyslaw Podkowinski
                                                 Depicts the female orgasm

It all started when I attended a little get together at a friend's house. It was all guys but me and this other chick. And as usual, we started talking about sex at the kitchen table.  So she was talking about how she is able to come vaginally and with the help of her clitoris. And I being straight forward, told her that I have never experience a vaginal orgasm. And that the common belief is that your either one or the other.  At that instant it hit me !!! I've been so obsessed with my clit (like a man is with his penis) that I totally forgot I had this vessel full of hidden treasures !

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                     Here's a little map to help you reach your treasure!  Number 4 = G-spot

This vessel was my vagina, such a beautiful word.  Ever since that conversation, I've been on a  mission to discover my g-spot. I must say, I've spent countless hours in bed exploring my vagina, touching, rubbing stroking the interior walls. I feel like I am blind and discovering my front lawn garden ! My mission has been proven successful, I can't stress enough the importance for a women to understand how her sexual organs function.  And most of all, being able to reach orgasm on her own, it's claiming control over one's body. A lot of women have this notion that " A man is going to do that for me" Yes, I do agree, he does have a part in it but SHE should be able to make herself come ALONE before anything else So spend time with yourself ladies ! Get to know yourself, I assure you many doors will open !! (no pun intended)